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Ruthilah: "You gave me my life back"

For many years, Ruthilah’s life as a substitute teacher was happy and stable. She and her son Wyatt lived with her partner and his two children, and they enjoyed all the perks of a typical, middle-class life. But, things started to turn when her partner lost his job and began having health issues.

Suddenly, Ruthilah was supporting five people on a sub’s wages. They were falling behind—and then the school year ended. And so did her job, leaving them with no income at all.

“We quickly got behind on all our expenses, and in the midst of that, I found myself behind on the rent,” she said. “I found out that even though I had been paying my share of the rent, my partner hadn’t. I begged my landlord not to evict us, but we lost our home.”

Ruthilah and Wyatt packed their bags and left the relationship, but it didn’t make it any easier to find a home for just the two of them. Since it was summer, Ruthilah didn’t have another teaching job lined up, and had no way to verify income for a landlord. She’d never felt more hopeless when she was reduced to living out of her car.

“When my son was with me, we stayed on couches, in living rooms of friends, with family, even with friends of friends,” she remembered. “When he was with his dad, it was easier for me to live in my car, so I wouldn’t feel like a burden to others. But Wyatt saw what was going on, and he had absorbed all my panic and my fear.”

A family member suggested Bridge Communities, and she immediately applied. Bridge had recently expanded with a new apartment building, and there was an opening for Ruthilah and her son. They were in the safety of a Bridge home just in time for a new school year. “When I got the keys to our apartment, it was absolutely fantastic,” she said. “Bridge was fabulous with helping my son get registered in his new school.” 

Next up was getting Ruthilah back into a school—to teach. “I had recently completed my masters degree to become a teacher. And it had been challenging to obtain a fulltime job. I had never expected I would be in that position.”

She worked with Bridge’s employment program, and was thrilled to find a full-time job teaching Contemporary History at a charter school on Chicago’s North Side.

Coming into the Bridge program also led to amazing opportunities for Wyatt, who had just been entering the sixth grade. “He had always wanted to play in band in middle school,” said Ruthilah. “There was a Bridge mentor who had a grown son with extra instruments, including a trombone, and they donated it to my son. He taught himself all summer how to play it by studying YouTube videos. By the time he started band in seventh grade, he’d worked his heart out and was ready.”

Wyatt also benefited from the stability of a fantastic DuPage County school and the activities it provided. “He’s just blossoming, and doing so well in school,” Ruthilah said. “He’s also in student council and Boy Scouts, and these are things he didn’t have for a long time.”

Ruthilah’s mentors also helped her prepare for a future beyond Bridge. “My mentors were amazing, and like family to us,” she said. “Having help to figure out insurance, health care—it’s like a full-time job! It was their help that made a difference.”

After two years in Bridge, Ruthilah and Wyatt were thrilled to move into an apartment of their own in the same school district. “Wyatt is excited to start high school in the fall and is already participating in some band activities there,” she says. “We have decided to stay in this district until he graduates high school. It really means that this town is home.”

She’s saving for a new house, and hopes to buy one later this year. Ruthilah pays her good fortune forward every day at her teaching job—because soon into her position, she found that she had something very unique in common with the kids.

“I’ve had several kids in my class who were experiencing homelessness,” she said. “And my experience has given me an opportunity to connect with these kids—and I’ve become like a mom to many of them. These kids motivate me, and I motivate them.”

She’s grateful for her time in Bridge, and for gaining the tools and confidence to never become homeless again. “For so long before Bridge, I just had to settle for what I could get, and it was a very hard thing,” she said. “My focus is to give my kid the things he deserves. There was a while when I couldn’t, and it just feels good now. Bridge gave me the ability to be the mom my kid deserves. And you gave me my life back.”


Kristen: "I am so thankful now"
Can you imagine what it would be like to be torn apart from your young child—leaving them night after night because you have no safe place to stay?

Kristen knows just how that feels — because that was how her life was, for months on end. Last year, Kristen was homeless and exhausted, out of money and out of steam. She felt hopeless.

Her brother offered to let her daughter Audrey stay with him, but there wasn’t room for Kristen—so she had to make the unbearable decision to separate from Audrey. “I felt awful to leave her night after night. There were times I slept in my car, in the parking lot, just to be close to her.”

Then, you helped bring Kristen and Audrey back together under one roof and welcomed them into Bridge Communities. Thank you!

Kristen is off to a great start—but she has a long road ahead of her, and lots to learn before she can make it on her own. And that can only happen with your support. 

Recently, Kristen was an all-star at our employment workshop, and we saw her confidence soar. Then, she went through career assessment testing, and scored off the charts. She found that she has fantastic technical and math skills, and is now pursuing a career in IT. Kristen just started a course to earn Microsoft and Cisco certifications.

“Looking back, it was so hard to live through those months homeless and separated from Audrey, but going through that time pushed me to do better,” says Kristen. “I am so thankful now, and I have a concrete plan for my future.”

You can help Kristen and Audrey achieve that bright and beautiful future. Please make a donation in their honor today
Gabi: "You gave me the chance to set myself up for success--thank you!"
Gabi first became homeless at just 17 years old, when she left a troubled household. She then spent the next few years couch-surfing, staying with any family or friends who would take her in.

     Her luck seemed to change when she fell in love, got married and had two amazing daughters. But her marriage soon fell apart. Gabi and her girls were left brokenhearted, and with nowhere to live.

     And you gave Gabi and her daughters a safe home when they came into Bridge Communities. Thank you for being there for them.
     
    Because what she's accomplished in just a year is incredible. Your support has meant that she's learned to budget, she's received counseling, and her daughters have a stable, happy home for the first time ever.

     But, here's the most incredible thing of all: Gabi has started the process of purchasing a house! 
 
     To go from homeless to homeowner in under two years--wow! We know she's going to get there. But she just needs a little more time. And she can only get there with your help.
 
     "You gave me the chance to set myself up for success," says Gabi. "Thank you!"
 
     She's nearly achieved her dream, and only you can take her to the finish line. Thank you stepping up for Gabi and her girls when they needed you. 

 

 

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